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Family and details
Indian Actress Vichithra has predominantly appeared in Tamil films. She has also appeared in a few Telugu, Malayalam and Kerala films. Her breakthrough came in the form of a glamorous role in the film industry and also the supporting roles. She is the daughter of actor Williams and Mary vasantha, and has two sisters and a brother. She did the films like Amaravathi, Rajathi raj raja, Veera, Vandicholai chinraasu, Amaidhi padai, Raasi, Samrat, Ponnu velaiyura boomi, Harichandra. Vichithra is an noteworthy participants on the reality show biggboss tamil season 7, which is hosted by Actor kamalhasan.
Vichithra casting couch allegations
In the ongoing biggboss tamil season 7, when the contestants are asked to share the biggest disaster in their life, she makes casting couch allegations against balakrishna. It was happened at 2001, Telugu film “bhalevadivi basu” . When the hero of the film asked to come to his room, she refused at the moment. In the biggboss show she shared the incident with the art of empathy. There people can understand the fact that the film industry has missed a hardworking woman.
I can feel her pain when she says that there was someone banging doors of her room. And the way she expressed the pain was ethical. Those bangs made her change rooms every day. Then the team wanted to teach a lesson. There some artists were touching her inappropriately without consent. She told this to the director, the director slapped actress vichithra in front of everyone. after that incident, complained it to the council and it didn’t help her in anyway. She says this is the major reason for her to take a long gap in cinema and still hurts her badly. And finally she moved on with someone who truly loves her from all the ways.
Patriarchal mindset of men
I could feel the despondency and a trauma over her words. The man who slapped her, and the team played the vital part in that trauma. She was disrespected by the only reason that she a woman.
1.Who are they (men) to teach her lesson?
2. Who is he to slap her and disrespect her in front of everyone?
3. They know all the lessons in their life?
4. Why men need to teach? Are they a superior teacher in general?
5. And so… the last weapon to get the submissiveness of a woman is to abuse her sexually. sounds good to you? Sounds healthy for some men here?
6. Why is the film industry is on top place that demolish all the accountability of women?
…It is disgusting that men are not competing with women; they are competing with their insecurities. And It is welcoming that she has deliver it on the screen about the back screen’s. Thanks for actress vichithra. And basically a note of sympathy will be annoying for a woman. Please don’t sympathize at her trauma. She won her already. Just embrace her from all the ways.
Redirection of women’s problems
“She has settled in pune and has retired from films after marriage”
The official websites are casting like this, but this is not the fact according to her saying in the episode of the day (21.11.2023) on biggboss tamil season 7. She said that she the job and she left the film industry only for the lack of self respect and doesn’t want to admit works for the people who are taking it for granted. She was never afraid of the abuse. But stood strongly there even when the team opposed. The council and the unity also neglected her complaint about the allegations against men in an easy way. This is the result of their patriarchal mindset.
The judgemental society
When she left the industry the problems and trauma might not be got over. The various other issues may raised by the family and he relatives like,
1. what are you going to do after this?
2. We would have already advised about the film industry.
3. It was bad to choose that profession being a woman.
..These all are because she is a female. That is the only reason that the judgemental society can consider. Sincerely a woman has every right as a human being to like or dislike to her heart’s consent. Nobody needs to bother this since it is not bothering you.
True dominance a woman can have
According to me, the true dominance of a woman is to be self sufficient. In the case of Actress vichithra, the Indian actress, she has became more self sufficient from that day of been violated. You want to be dominant? Then learn how to be self sufficient. The weapon of choice is your mind and hands. Learn to control your hands through you mind and you teach yourself a lesson how to live (nobody has to). You can be creative and dominant once you have the complete control of your hands and minds. Those thumbs are there for a reason. We are learning from the society instead of learning from fathers and mothers to pass on the strength to the female children. A woman must learn to dominate the nature. We has to be removed from the nature and the so called culture only for women.
-writer.jerl.
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